Communication is key!

If there was one thing that keeps a relationship going, it is communication. If you don't talk and tell each other things, it probably isn't going to last very long. You are going to lose the spark and things will begin to dwindle away. When there is something wrong or you are upset with someone, tell them in a very calm tone and try to talk about it and work it out. Screaming and yelling doesn't help get your point across. It only makes the other person mad and chances are they won't listen to screaming and yelling. If you want the other person to do something, tell them or ask them nicely. Try to give each other compliments also. I was watching this Tyler Perry movie last night and it was so good. It was called Why Did I get Married? It talked about these 4 couples who go on vacation every year just to work on their marriage. To begin with, all the couples were fighting and one even got divorced, but she re-married. They worked out their differences calmly and eventually began to talk to each other and tell each other every thing. This made it a whole lot easier for their marriages.